tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post868107804893708992..comments2024-02-02T07:13:37.313-06:00Comments on Like Merchant Ships: Maternity woesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-79668833741138034482009-07-01T04:27:05.541-05:002009-07-01T04:27:05.541-05:00Gap and Old Navy have simple cotton maternity dres...<a href="http://www.dealrocker.com/promotions/gapmaternity/coupons" rel="nofollow">Gap</a> and Old Navy have simple cotton maternity dresses that are empire waisted so you can wear them for at least another month or two.Virginia Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13546558894513875379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-71722363717381154302008-05-07T19:41:00.000-05:002008-05-07T19:41:00.000-05:00Don't envy you shopping for a maternity wedding ou...Don't envy you shopping for a maternity wedding outfit.<BR/><BR/>My sister had me in her wedding 10 days AFTER giving birth. Her size 0 unmarried friends thought I was STILL pregnant.Abbreviatedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06761589263749466874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-45942392896928074162008-05-06T12:15:00.000-05:002008-05-06T12:15:00.000-05:00*points up* That was me. I should have read ahea...*points up* That was me. I should have read ahead!<BR/>Good luck with your search.Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03381554731510359760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-19791844885413530972008-05-06T12:09:00.000-05:002008-05-06T12:09:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03381554731510359760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-40339125347819263092008-05-06T08:48:00.000-05:002008-05-06T08:48:00.000-05:00How frustrating! It's hard to find decent maternit...How frustrating! It's hard to find decent maternity clothes even if you're willing to spend a ton of money...and for some reason, whenever you have a specific occasion to dress for, that's when you can't find a single appropriate thing for love nor money.<BR/><BR/>Do they still make jumpers? My all-time favorite maternity outfit -- which I continued to wear after the pregnancy until it just flat wore out -- was a gray jumper that went on over a blouse. It had an empire line and was extremely simple. You might be able to make one with a pattern or to get a seamstress to sew one for you. With a nice blouse and a little jewelry, you end up looking good.<BR/><BR/>To find a seamstress (as opposed to an expensive tailor), ask at dry-cleaning stores and at retail clothing stores that will do alterations. <BR/><BR/>If you decide to do that, remember that patterns may run small. Get a size larger than your real size. It's easy to cut it down, impossible to make it larger. Choose a plain fabric with no frou-frou and use the blouse to add pattern and color.<BR/><BR/>Also consider looking for ethnic clothes: Mexican, Indian, African. These are often loosely cut and cover you modestly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-36520205934568295402008-05-05T18:32:00.000-05:002008-05-05T18:32:00.000-05:00Wow. I'm there. supposed to give birth actually ...Wow. I'm there. supposed to give birth actually before your wedding. And I too like to cover my arms. Maybe you could find something specifically for that like a long, light scarf that you put over your shoulders, tuck under your arms and tie in the back to make mock sleeves. If you get what I'm saying it shouldn't be too hot and (don't tie it too tight)would make you more comfortable about your arms. Plus, they did this fashion show at the bible study I attended and said this look was very in right now (not to mention inexpensive).Gini (Hallquist) Younghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03916279353448690962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-46723914352889563712008-05-05T13:41:00.000-05:002008-05-05T13:41:00.000-05:00Do you have a Motherhood Maternity near you? I wa...Do you have a Motherhood Maternity near you? I was seven months pregnant in the summer for a relative's wedding. Let's just say that all the other women in the family were told which bridal store to buy their dresses at. The gals at Motherhood Maternity dressed me up to the nines for less than $40.<BR/>JulieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-10365455282470404682008-05-04T14:30:00.000-05:002008-05-04T14:30:00.000-05:00As someone who has been a BRIDESMATRON in a weddin...As someone who has been a BRIDESMATRON in a wedding while about 6 months pregnant (and wearing a pumpkin colored taffeta, no less), I say just wear what you feel comfortable in. I do think that the tailored look is best. My bridesmatron dress was princess-seamed (A line? whatever), and I don't think everyone even knew I was pregnant, and I was NOT a little pregnant person. I'm anxiously waiting to see what you come up with! : )Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-15171746068795880052008-05-04T13:16:00.000-05:002008-05-04T13:16:00.000-05:00Find something somewhere that makes you feel beaut...Find something somewhere that makes you feel beautiful! Then hold on to it until next late-winter and sell it on consignment or EBay. Someone else will be feeling just exactly like you do next year and will be willing to pay what it's worth. :) No fun in going if you don't feel like one of the party. Try thrift stores, online shops, or the mall--and when you find It, just remember that it's going out the door for money next year. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-47310594680824757272008-05-04T13:07:00.001-05:002008-05-04T13:07:00.001-05:00Just my two cents: Buy something spectacular and r...Just my two cents: Buy something spectacular and resell it after! In that way you are just renting the dress!Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04764437077561164662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-57012378048082648662008-05-04T13:07:00.000-05:002008-05-04T13:07:00.000-05:00Just my two cents: Buy something spectacular and r...Just my two cents: Buy something spectacular and resell it after! In that way you are just renting the dress!Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04764437077561164662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-72594515097827422262008-05-04T12:55:00.001-05:002008-05-04T12:55:00.001-05:00You do such a great job at being a responsible spe...You do such a great job at being a responsible spender and do so many wonderful things for your family. I say splurge on a new dress -- one that you will feel comfortable in and most importantly, feel beautiful in. Good luck!<BR/><BR/>KristinaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-73841196275429247852008-05-04T12:55:00.000-05:002008-05-04T12:55:00.000-05:00On the Target website there are 3 pages of materni...On the Target website there are 3 pages of maternity dresses by Liz Lange. They all under $50 and you could consign it afterwards.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-57422253037552263982008-05-04T11:09:00.000-05:002008-05-04T11:09:00.000-05:00A lot of the children's consignment stores here ha...A lot of the children's consignment stores here have maternity sections. My sister got married a few weeks after I gave birth to my third, and Easter was when I was about 5 months. I found a floaty dress that ties in such a way as to be flattering at both times. For about $12. Just find something that makes you fell beautiful, even if you think you look huge. It's okay to be huge, but when you feel beautiful, I think it shows, and other people will think you look beautiful too.Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05694521143609595819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-9923839257659935172008-05-04T10:47:00.000-05:002008-05-04T10:47:00.000-05:00I just looked on the Pea In A Pod website and ther...I just looked on the Pea In A Pod website and there is a pretty black and white dress (jersey, I think) with short sleeves, v-neck, black band under bust that I think would be nice for a weddding with black patent strappy sandals. It is on sale from $195 to $79. (They have other sale clothes, too) That might be an option and you could probably get $50 back for it if you sold it on eBay later. Bottom line, an upscale dress for 30 bucks. Just my 2 cents.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-47424862861598154502008-05-04T10:07:00.000-05:002008-05-04T10:07:00.000-05:00I was on an extremely tight budget when I was preg...I was on an extremely tight budget when I was pregnant, and most of my maternity clothes came from thrift stores, eBay and consignment shops. Don't forget to check children's consignment shops, most,in my area at least, carry maternity clothing. You might find a great outfit there, maybe a little higher priced than thrift stores but way less than retail. Other people have needed a great dress for an occassion, too! And consigned it after the event! If you start your search now, you'll find the right dress, and if necessary, go stright to the nearest mall and buy one you absolutely love! Get great accessories, know you are looking you best, and stand up tall with your tummy out, and be proud! Just don't let Andrew cut you hair for this event :)!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-57456405701048130782008-05-04T10:04:00.000-05:002008-05-04T10:04:00.000-05:00There is an online discount maternity store at :ht...There is an online discount maternity store at :http://cravingstyle.com/<BR/><BR/>BUT I find that GapMaternity has the most fashionable and comfortable clothes for maternity...and I bought ALL of mine on sale. Their regular-priced items are very expensive, but you can find items to wear in both seasons (ex: they usually have some spring stuff on sale still in spring...summer in summer...etc)! They have great skirts there that one can even wear after maternity without the massive wasteband!(shh! I'm still doing it!) :)<BR/>Good Luck!Sarah Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05897525100460024871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-64514814568233469582008-05-04T08:06:00.000-05:002008-05-04T08:06:00.000-05:00Oh I am so thankful for generous Mom friends with ...Oh I am so thankful for generous Mom friends with nice maternity wardrobes. If you can find one or two that will share with you- that might help greatly! And freecycle! If you lived close I'd most certainly share!!<BR/><BR/>P.S. With this pregnancy I've found that thanks to the babydoll-look fashion trend, MANY regular dresses and tops are as roomy and giving as maternity. Clearance racks are my friends.<BR/><BR/>StephStephanie Wilson she/her @babystephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02703122439142892617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-27821610225720832572008-05-04T07:40:00.000-05:002008-05-04T07:40:00.000-05:00I can't imagine you ever feeling guiltless for spe...I can't imagine you ever feeling guiltless for spending extravagantly on yourself. Not that you don't deserve a fantastic outfit--you certainly do! <BR/><BR/>I never splurge on one-day outfits; even my wedding dress was a huge markdown! But since you'll be pregnant most of the summer, I think it's wise to purchase a few items that you're sure to wear again. There's no getting around it: you NEED some summer clothing! <BR/><BR/>I look forward to hearing how the Lord will provide for this genuine need! And I know you'll look beautiful.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08150226972519438479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-88732903903244468692008-05-04T07:22:00.000-05:002008-05-04T07:22:00.000-05:00Linen dress, sandals, pedicure, shawl in case it i...Linen dress, sandals, pedicure, shawl in case it is chilly in evening, one pretty piece of jewelry (maybe hair back with drop-dead earrings or hair down and statement bracelet). Remember there will be pictures and you want to stand out for the right reasons! Sometimes it is important to spend a little - or even lot - more than you would imagine you could to feel special for an important family event. Your husband should think you look absolutely beautiful. I would not even show him my outfit until I came out dressed and gorgeous!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-60192844548554423592008-05-04T07:13:00.000-05:002008-05-04T07:13:00.000-05:00I so agree with Susan. For once, just don't look (...I so agree with Susan. For once, just don't look (at least too closely!) at the price tag, and make up your mind to look fabulous. Don't forget that since you will no doubt be wear strappy sandals to an island wedding, it is imperative that you get a professional pedicure. You know everyone there will have perfect-looking feet so that is something you don't want to overlook. Start working on pampering them now. And either carry a matching bag or leave it in the hotel room. Your green purse is great for everyday but won't do for this. I think you probably have better taste in clothing than you think. You know everyone else will look chic and you deserve to fit right in. Repeat after me: "I can spend money quiltlessly for this. I can spend money quiltlessly for this." You go, Girl!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-54628129382326544242008-05-04T06:31:00.000-05:002008-05-04T06:31:00.000-05:00I am feeling your pain right now. I am in the firs...I am feeling your pain right now. I am in the first stages (10 weeks) of my third pregnancy. The clothes I wore with my other two are worn out after 2 uses, and I do not want to buy much, since we are buying a house right now and we are also going to pay for this baby OUT OF POCKET. And I HATE maternity clothes. I think other people look cute in them, but I cannot seem to find any I feel good in. And they cost do seem to cost a lot (I paid $40 for one pair of pants in my first pregnancy, b/c I have to buy size Long.) Anyway, I have no words of wisdom in this area, so I am just here to say I feel for you and just keep in mind that you can resell maternity clothes very easily when you are done with them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-59576268905624295962008-05-04T05:22:00.000-05:002008-05-04T05:22:00.000-05:00Check around with some friends. I purchased a nic...Check around with some friends. I purchased a nice beaded maternity dress for a special event about four years ago - I think it was on clearance at Motherhood Maternity in a mall somewhere. At least once a summer a friend of mine who is in some stage of pregnancy asks if I have anything kind of fancy and I'm thrilled to let anyone borrow it. It is long (almost to ankle, black with pretty beads and flowy, yet not too loose). Of course, black may not be the best wedding choice, but maybe a friend has something you could borrow for this special day. Be proud of that big growing belly - there is a miracle in there! An though I've certainly had my beached whale moments with two August babies, I've loved it (in air-conditioned comfort, of course). Best of luck finding something you feel great in!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-89576335384845821632008-05-04T03:12:00.000-05:002008-05-04T03:12:00.000-05:00oooo, an island destination wedding! 100% Linen o...oooo, an island destination wedding! <BR/><BR/>100% Linen or seersucker or gauze. Those fabrics breathe and cool because of their weave. I find linen annoying because of the wrinkling, my aunt calls them "Rich Wrinkles" but they make me feel rumpled.<BR/><BR/>Great earlier comment about tunic and loose pants if that makes your body type look long and elegant (trinnyandsusannah.com have useful pics their books). <BR/><BR/>You probably look wonderful in soft khaki, cinnamon, parchment, teal, lime ... You'll find something pleasing, and anyway,your in-laws can't help but be proud of the blessing you are to their son and their grandchildren!<BR/><BR/>deb meyersAn Adventurer in the Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11609157269651262432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12364613.post-18620963922307780032008-05-04T02:37:00.000-05:002008-05-04T02:37:00.000-05:00I think the key to not looking like a beached whal...I think the key to not looking like a beached whale while pregnant is rather paradoxical: don't try to hide that you're pregnant. I don't mean to squeeze yourself into skin-tight clothing, but choose something tailored. Big blousy muumuus will just make anyone look bloated and whalish. (Not that I can imagine you doing anything so un-chic as dressing in a muumuu.)Rebekkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13536021238594385545noreply@blogger.com